Jealousy: love or control??

Fill out the following quizz to find out:

  • Click 1 if the question represents a situation that never happens in your relationship.
  • Click 8 if this represents a situation that always happens.
Does your boyfriend/ girlfriend ring you to see where your are or who you are with?
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend doesn’t let me go out with a group of friends if they are not there.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend rings me to see where I am or who I’m with.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend make me feel guilty for spending time with my friends or family.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend thinks that an innocent conversation is flirting and gets angry with me.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend thinks that someone is always trying to steal me from them.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/ girlfriend looks through my Facebook, Bebo, MySpace, mobile phone or emails.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend doesn’t let me have male friends and/or isn’t cool with it/my girlfriend doesn’t let me have female friends and/or isn’t cool with it?
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/girlfriend has stopped me seeing friends who I was seeing before we were together.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
When we are at parties my boyfriend/girlfriend follows me everywhere.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/girlfriend tells me what I should wear when we go out.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8
My boyfriend/girlfriend always is all over me, hugging me and kissing me, when he/she thinks that someone is hitting on me.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8

So .... is your relationship based on love, or does your partner want to control what you do?